Adult Blogger: HORNY SPANISH FLIES didn't feel like beating around the bush anymore, "not exactly attractive, Honey," he looked Jan in the eyes and spoke the frank truth, "sexy as hell would be a better way of describing it." Mike caught Jan off guard and pretty much speechless so after a moment of silence he finished. "Isn't it better to be honest? Isn't it OK after 33 years of marriage to say what you mean?" Mike knew he might be better off to quit here but he was on a role. He'd been walking a careful line every since Jan had decided that 'they' would discontinue their sexual explorations outside of the marriage a couple of years earlier. He hadn't known just what had made Jan want to stop. He knew that she'd enjoyed the experiences just as much, if not more, than he had. She'd just simply decided to stop and her stopping necessitated his stopping too. "We might not be entertaining the possibilities of exploring new people sexually anymore, but I can still enjoy flirting with someone I find interesting and appealing, can't I?"